Dear Prime Minister,
In my lifetime (I was born in September 1975) there have been, including yourself, seven Prime Ministers. There have also been, (inc those who were PM obviously) six Conservative Party leaders. I am old enough, and geeky enough from a young age, to have heard of Macmillan and Douglas-Home when they were still alive, and knew enough of Baroness Thatcher's three immediate predecessors at the time to hold them in high esteem, even if I did disagree with them on occasion.
In fact I have held every Tory leader from Macmillan to Michael Howard with varying degrees of respect and as a Labour Party activist I regard holding an opponent with respect to be a fundamental part of what helps bring out the best in British politics. That becomes very difficult, if not impossible, when an opponent behaves in a way which merits both political and personal contempt. You, Prime Minister, have managed to encourage that in spades.
When you became leader in 2005, I welcomed your election as an opponent who was a breath of fresh air. I admired your willingness to modernise and your desire to see the end of "Punch and Judy politics", I deplored the attacks on your background, the most damning being your Bullingdon Club membership, on the basis that just because a person has a past doesn't mean they cannot have a future!
Of course that went out the window a long while ago didn't it! You don't just seem to engage in bareknuckle boxing matches, you seem to enjoy them in a way which makes many, inc me, think "Once a Bullingdon member, always a Bullingdon member..." You and your Party lauched personal attack after another on Gordon Brown and his fitness or lack of to hold office, and yet you frequently seem to indulge in behaviour, notably at Prime Minister's Questions, which leads many to question your fitness. I have seen footage of Thatcher and Major and other of your predecessors have off days, and yet you seem to have them often than most, engaging in abuse instead of answering questions. You may say it is the pressures of the job and lacking a majority and you may well be right in part, but Major, Callaghan, and Wilson had similar pressures and yet on most days could be better behaved at Prime Minister's Questions if nowhere else!
In the past six months you have verbally abused two elderly Labour MP's and failed to apologise, you used "Tourettes" as an abusive term at Ed Balls and only today called him a "muttering idiot" and only apologised when under pressure. In fact when you apologised today, you did so with a grin and your MP's shouting "more" with your Chancellor (who still has not apologised for calling Gordon Brown "autistic") seeming to be one of the most vocal in that regard. That seems to indicate you and your Party still "Don't get it!" You also now have a reputation, as I am sure you know, for being tardy and abusive, arrogant and rude in the Commons chamber.
I know it is tough, but many of your predecessors coped better under similar circumstances and I am asking you as someone from the opposing party to please moderate your behaviour and consider carefully your actions and learn to control your temper and seek some form of anger management, a problem obvious to many observers. Be a better man, admit your faults and try better and you'll get more support on a personal level than you dare hope for. Otherwise your behaviour will garner more contempt from not just members of my Party, but also the general public and members of your Party and you really don't want that!
With what respect I have left
Paul Burgin
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